tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2135948144232575186.post5696900064818116332..comments2014-03-31T10:32:08.057+13:00Comments on Abe's Oddyssey: Everyone is pregnant!!!Abehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07395479552597206676noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2135948144232575186.post-80577041923627165482008-10-11T17:11:00.000+13:002008-10-11T17:11:00.000+13:00Hi Glen and Andrea,Thanks for your comments. I hav...Hi Glen and Andrea,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your comments. I have found that being able to read other people's blogs on the matter of infertility has been a great way to explore the emotions and journey of infertility in ways I've not yet experienced, so feel free to share whatever you want here as anonymously as you like - I know I would never have been able to share the things I have had I known that everyone who knows me could read all my most personal details - somehow it's not so scary when I'm anonymous :-)<BR/><BR/>I'd love to hear more of your journey<BR/>AbeAbehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07395479552597206676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2135948144232575186.post-74692425311158820262008-10-11T13:03:00.000+13:002008-10-11T13:03:00.000+13:00Abe, A very eloquent post. Although not a male I ...Abe, <BR/>A very eloquent post. Although not a male I am still very much benefiting from your blog. My blog originated as a journal of our adoption, it also chronicled our infertility pain but has now morphed into a polite photo album. So reading your blog and commenting is serving me well as a private place to mourn and vent. A place I used to have but have somehow lost. <BR/><BR/>Honestly, I think that those of us living with infertility are more concientious about what we say and how we make others feel. And more sensitive than others - but not OVER sensitive. I think that unless you have experienced it you don't understand the extent of the pain and related thoughts one can have, therefore people probably can't be as sensitive as we really would like them to be. <BR/><BR/>I think I've woffled far too much here and probably have been unclear on what I'm trying to say. Girls can do that ;)Glen and Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13996335785493720558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2135948144232575186.post-84112383194016268612008-10-09T06:43:00.000+13:002008-10-09T06:43:00.000+13:00Abe,I've been trying to come up with a response to...Abe,<BR/><BR/>I've been trying to come up with a response to this post. Not much has come to me except to remind you that you're not alone. One of my closest friends is scheduled to deliver her second child next Tuesday. Her husband have met and had two children in the time we've been trying. That is why I continue searching for serenity.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you.Searching for Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17842793601509147918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2135948144232575186.post-65779469748903353952008-10-08T20:36:00.000+13:002008-10-08T20:36:00.000+13:00Yeah I know how you feel, it has now got to the st...Yeah I know how you feel, it has now got to the stage where every one is having thier 2nd or 3rd child for us. We are in a slightly different situation to you as we have adopted our first child now, but it hurts all the same. There is still the pain whenever we hear of someones "good news". My sisters anouncement of her pregnancy is not an example of understanding, it was a txt saying "where're increaseing the stocking rate here, I'm due in Nov." Shes a farmer so that explains the rural terminolgy for increasing the size of the family. <BR/>This is the same person who said the reason we are not pregnant yet is because God was teaching us patience!! We know how you feel, thats about the best we can say. Cool blog.<BR/>GGlen and Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13996335785493720558noreply@blogger.com