Tuesday, September 23, 2008

What is Abe's Oddyssey?

HI! My name isn't Abe, but it will do for the purposes of this Blog.

You may ask - "Where'd you come up with a blog name like that, and what is it all about?"

The long and the short of it is that My wife and I have now been trying for the last 3 and a half years to conceive, get pregnant and have children... If someone had told us 7 years ago when we got married that it would be this difficult then we would have started seriously thinking about becoming parents A LOT sooner!

This is going to be a journal of thoughts, dreams, hopes and prayers that one day - like Abraham in Genesis - God will grant us the greatest desires of our hearts. Hence Abe's Oddyssey.

Here's some info about me...

I am currently 28 (29 in October), I am a Christian, My wife (who I will call Sarah for obvious reasons!) is 27 and also a Christian. Obviously there is much to tell from our past three and a half years. Over time I've come across blogs from a number of people who have undergone IVF, and other fertility treatments, and it always seemed that they had such valid stories to tell. Mine seemed kind of boring, and I'm not sure I had the words or motivation to put it into this kind of format. After recently undergoing our first attempt at IVF the floodgates were opened (in more than one sense), and I began to record a little of the thoughts, emotions and struggles that I was experiencing. It was a tremendous release!

Thinking back to some of the posts that I've read from other bloggers, their ramblings always came across as valid, and it had nothing to do with how exciting they were. Their validity and usefulness, for me, came from the fact that they were recording a similar experience, and I felt that I had shared somewhat of their experience. So I hope that someone out there feels similarly at some point. And if I ramble then that's ok - it's likely that it simply helped me more than anyone else. :-)

I want this blogging journey to record the very real struggles of a Christian man that one day has the dreams of his heart realised (no - sorry, I'm not American ;-)). Abraham was a firm believer in the God that created him. He had been promised that he would be the father of many nations. It is easy for us to look back and with hindsight forget that there were probably decades of time that passed from the first promise from God through to the realising of that dream for Abraham. I think I can appreciate a little of what he went through thousands of years ago...


Lollipop Goldstein said...

Welcome to the blogosphere, Abe--I'm glad you chose to write out your journey.

Stacey said...

Hi Abe,
I recently came across your blog and I wanted to thank you for your decision to share your story (I'm commenting on your first post because I've gone back to read all of them). I can't wait to give my husband a link to it so he can follow it as well. I think having a fellow Christian male sharing the struggle could be very helpful.
We are on year 7 of trying to have children and have experienced recurrent miscarriage.
I'm adding you to my reader and to my prayer list! Thanks again.

The Petersons said...

I have yet to read the rest of your entries aside from your frequently asked questions one and this one. But I wanted to stop and say hi, seeing as how it is obviously rude to stop by someone's house and not say hi :-) I look forward to reading the journey that God has taken you on, as it brings me excitement to know that God is the author of all of our stories, no matter what the genre is. Thanks for posting and I look forward to seeing where this goes.

The Petersons said...

I just realized that the frequently asked questions I mentioned in my other comment came from someone else's blog who happens to have an identical layout to yours. Still, I have read your blog now up through the end of October, and still adhere to everything I said before.